| "Men are all the same. Stop looking for | | | | "opportunities". Statistics have proved that |
| Prince Charming, Dreamer!" | | | | the more the person is beautiful, in the |
| | | | standard of a community, the more the |
| "We just can't commit to one person! I | | | | incidence of being unfaithful is increased. |
| Loooove Women!" | | | | |
| | | | Does it mean that we should only date Ugly |
| "I can't help it! Women want me!" | | | | people to reassure our insecurities? |
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| "I almost went with this co-worker of mine | | | | I think not. |
| years ago, and I feel some kind of regret | | | | |
| today that I haven't done it..." | | | | Be aware that if you find someone beautiful, |
| | | | there are at least 15 other people out there |
| "Caroline, I have an active sex life with my | | | | who finds your mate attractive, whether he or |
| girlfriend. I look around because of the | | | | she has a die hard body or just with a "few |
| thrill of the chase!!!" | | | | pounds to lose." Beauty is within the eyes |
| | | | of the beholder. |
| I hear this All the time...... | | | | |
| | | | The infidelity rate is slightly higher |
| I am sure that you have heard this once also. | | | | towards Women then Men. I was surprised when |
| It is frightening. Maybe my actual | | | | I read that but it actually does make sense. |
| boyfriend has been unfaithful and I just | | | | Women become dissatisfied easily compared to |
| don't know about it or I didn't see the | | | | Men. |
| signs... or didn't want to see the signs. | | | | |
| | | | And the dissatisfaction can be much more |
| But why is it that so many men jump the | | | | complex then a man can understand or fulfill. |
| fence? Is it because of an unsatisfying sex | | | | Also, women being part of an essential part |
| life? Or is it for that quest of lost | | | | of the work force, opportunities are more |
| Infatuation? Is it by perversion? | | | | frequent then when they use to be homemakers. |
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| Another one of my friend thinks that I am too | | | | Selfishness is also another indicator of your |
| hard when I say that "Men" are "The" | | | | level of devotion. Selfishness does not care |
| unfaithful ones because she says that it also | | | | about the feeling of others and that feeling |
| takes another woman at the other end. She | | | | exits in the present only. It is an immature |
| has a point. | | | | behavior that we are supposed to have evolved |
| | | | from at the teenage age. |
| However, I observed that it usually occurs | | | | |
| with a single women longing for loving and | | | | Think about it a little bit: when someone is |
| not sure if she really wants to leave her | | | | unfaithful, in the moment, that person |
| fabulous single life to settle down in a | | | | doesn't think at all of the consequences or |
| "white bread" relationship. | | | | how the partner might feel! |
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| So, what is it then? | | | | I would say that, in the end, it is the |
| | | | commitment and the level of respect for |
| Yes, there are those Men who are just afraid | | | | yourself and your partner that determines if |
| of commitment. The only way that they | | | | there will be less chances of infidelity |
| reassure themselves that they still have that | | | | within your relationship. |
| "Freedom" or "Masculinity" is by sleeping | | | | |
| with someone else. Period. | | | | With openness and caring of the feelings of |
| | | | your partner, you will be able not to be |
| This has nothing to do with the level of | | | | tempted by that chick at work, or that overly |
| quality of the relationship that they are | | | | nice and somewhat handsome colleague at work. |
| currently involved in. Some need a higher | | | | |
| dose of "Freedom" then others. Anyhow, who | | | | So look for that person with a noble heart, a |
| wants to be with a man who always is looking | | | | high level of maturity, who demonstrates |
| to prove to himself that he is "Free" or he | | | | admiration, respect and generosity towards |
| is indeed a "Man"? | | | | you. This is a clear indication of a healthy |
| | | | shield towards temptation. |
| Also, there is the element of | | | | |