| You learned the first 3 stages of online | | | | kind of clothes they wear, what their room |
| dating in the first part of this two part | | | | looks like, see their animals or kids if they |
| article. Now onto the final stages 4-7.Stage | | | | have any, and much more. It finally humanizes |
| 4In this stage, you exchange your MSN, AOL, | | | | online dating and makes it all worth it and |
| Yahoo, or your personal Instant Messenger | | | | real.If you don't have a webcam go get one. |
| addresses so you can talk together in real | | | | The best webcam in the world is the Logitech |
| time with each other.What does this stage | | | | Orbitz webcam. I have it, because I use it |
| mean? Plenty! Now, we're starting to get | | | | for business a lot. You can get it at Best |
| somewhere and see how the person's sense of | | | | Buy or Circuit City for like $125 or buy it |
| humor is, personality, how sensitive they | | | | online for like $100, plus a cheap webcam you |
| are, how intelligent they are, and they're | | | | can get now for like $40 so no excuses ok.If |
| basically on the spot with you.Before, when | | | | you're in a relationship or want to try |
| you exchanged emails with them thru the | | | | really to get to know someone from a distance |
| dating site or thru personal email, it was | | | | and possibly start a long distance |
| NOT in real time. Meaning that person | | | | relationship, then this is a must. I know |
| could've had to read your email 5 times to | | | | from a lot of experience. Long term |
| actually understand or get it, then ask some | | | | relationships can work (still a minority |
| of their friends how to respond back to it, | | | | percentage) but webcam is the only way, |
| and it could take them days or even weeks to | | | | because you forget kind of what that person |
| respond.Now, in this 4th stage, the chemistry | | | | looks like even with pictures, and I can't |
| (or lack of it) starts to show its ugly head. | | | | stress that enough.Best advice, when guys ask |
| Because now it's in real time, so you can see | | | | and they will if you have a webcam be choosy |
| how slow or quick-witted they are. Are they | | | | who you say yes to, ok. Only say yes after |
| selfish? Do they talk only about themselves | | | | you get to know them some and you feel |
| or about you? Do they get your jokes? Do they | | | | comfortable. Many guys that are just looking |
| get offended easily, or are they very | | | | for free porn or strip show will ask you that |
| sensitive? Are they open sexually and like to | | | | in an email or instant chat right away which |
| talk about their own experiences, likes | | | | you may have noticed.Stage 7In this, the |
| dislikes, and their own sexuality.Plus they | | | | final stage, you finally meet in person |
| can see when you're online or not and can IM | | | | either meeting at a bar, coffee shop, |
| you whenever they want!! How many times do | | | | restaurant, club, or wherever if you meet. If |
| you get annoying pop windows from people | | | | it's long distance-which has been mostly my |
| IMing you that you don't know? I know I do! | | | | own personal experience then you need to |
| Well, it could be that person you gave it to | | | | decide on who's flying or driving to see who |
| but you found out they weren't mister or | | | | and the arrangements.What does this mean? |
| misses right!Stage 5In this stage, you | | | | Everything! Webcams don't always give you the |
| exchange phone numbers and now the offline | | | | best and most realistic images of a person. |
| relationship goes offline, and they can | | | | They wont show you if the person has a bad |
| contact you 24/7 even when you're not on your | | | | complexion, has acne, how hairy they are, has |
| computer.What does this stage mean? It's big. | | | | lots of freckles or moles (not a bad thing |
| Now, you can call them anytime you want or | | | | just saying), bad teeth, bad hair, or bad |
| vice versa when they're drunk, happy, mad, | | | | skin.You're also going to find out-which you |
| stressed out, depressed, etc. You finally get | | | | can't from webcam-how they taste, how soft |
| to hear what they sound like which could be a | | | | their lips are, how they feel, how soft their |
| good or bad thing. It proves to each of you | | | | skin is, how warm or cold their body is, how |
| that you're both real and actually the gender | | | | they smell, if they have bad breath or good |
| you claimed to be! Seriously, the stories I | | | | breath, how soft their hair is, and how |
| have heard about guys and gals pretending to | | | | gorgeous their eyes and face really are.After |
| be of the opposite sex. Messed up crap, I | | | | all the talk online and on the phone, you |
| tell you!They can now call you ten times a | | | | will also finally get to see their actions in |
| day and also text you a dozen more! If things | | | | person. For example, if a man says that he is |
| get ugly, changing your phone number is one | | | | a gentleman, does he really open every door |
| huge pain in the butt and inconvenience-at | | | | and car door for you always?Does he order for |
| least it would be for me. It would be | | | | you, but ask you first what you're going to |
| catastrophic if, as a business owner, you use | | | | get?Does he pay for everything?Are they |
| your cell phone as your office line, so don't | | | | really as affectionate as they say in public |
| give that out easily.Side Note: There could | | | | or private?Do they dress sharp like they |
| be another stage in between 5 and 6 for | | | | say?Do they have manners? Do they pay |
| exchanging mailing addresses if one or both | | | | attention to you when you're talking?Do they |
| of you wanted to send a card or something to | | | | just stare at your body?Do they only talk |
| each other. Now you're telling that person | | | | about themselves?Do they really have their |
| exactly where you live so, again, big step if | | | | own house or apartment?Do they have the car |
| you're a woman for safety reasons.Stage 6In | | | | they say they did?If you understand fully and |
| this stage, both of you or one of you gets on | | | | follow these simple steps, it will make the |
| webcam for the other person to see you in | | | | online dating and meeting experience much |
| real time and finally see it's a real live | | | | more enjoyable I promise. Take it from |
| person.What does this mean? Almost | | | | someone that has been on more online dating |
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