| Your first date conversation has a big effect | | | | It will really make a good impression on your |
| on the impression you make on your date. And | | | | date and will make him/her like you, because |
| as you know, you never get a second chance to | | | | you showed that you are a thoughtful and |
| make a first impression or create a perfect | | | | polite person who values other people's |
| first date with someone. | | | | opinions and lives - not just him/herself. |
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| In addition to making a good impression, your | | | | Because you know how rare these kinds of |
| conversation is important also because it | | | | people are who really listen to you when you |
| helps you learn more about that person by | | | | speak about yourself. I mean really listen. |
| asking questions. | | | | |
| | | | Also by asking questions about them and |
| After all, you want to see whether you and | | | | listening carefully, you get the chance to |
| him/her have enough things in common to go on | | | | learn much more about that person and decide |
| a second date or not. | | | | if you like him/her and want to start a |
| | | | relationship with him/her. |
| So what should you talk about? What questions | | | | |
| should you ask? How should you keep the | | | | Most people (especially men) keep talking |
| conversation going in a fun and relaxing way | | | | about themselves and things they have |
| for both of you? | | | | accomplished while neglecting her opinions |
| | | | and forgetting to ask about her. |
| Here are 3 tips for a successful | | | | |
| conversation... | | | | They just want to impress their date and show |
| | | | her they are better than the other guys she |
| Tip #1: Ask Good, Fun Questions | | | | has dated, but the results will be the |
| | | | opposite. |
| Questions are a great way to keep the | | | | |
| conversation going. They will also help you | | | | So remember to keep the focus on your date! |
| learn more about this person so you can find | | | | |
| out how much you have in common and if you're | | | | Tip #3: Keep Your First Date Short and Fun |
| compatible enough to enter an intimate | | | | |
| romantic relationship. | | | | The purpose of a first date is to get to know |
| | | | each other a little and get a general idea of |
| Here are 3 great first date questions that | | | | the other person's personality and way of |
| will help you keep the conversation going in | | | | life. So that you can decide if there's |
| a fun way, and also will tell you a lot about | | | | enough chemistry and compatibility between |
| your date's personality and lifestyle. | | | | you two. |
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| Also be sure to listen to your date carefully | | | | If you like this person in the first place, |
| and really pay attention to him/her. Show | | | | you'll always have time for a second, third, |
| your date you are curious to know more about | | | | and more dates to get to know them more and |
| him by asking follow-up questions about what | | | | more. So don't rush into things. |
| he just said. | | | | |
| | | | Also avoid talking about risky topics like |
| It will also make a very good impression on | | | | politics, religion, your or your date's exes, |
| your date that you are really paying | | | | and so on. |
| attention to him/her. | | | | |
| | | | So make your first date short and simple. |
| Tip #2: Keep the Focus on Your Date | | | | Have fun, and enjoy talking to each other and |
| | | | being together. |
| Be curious about your date. Ask him/her | | | | |
| questions and then pay full attention when he | | | | Wish you a lot of success in your next first |
| she answers. | | | | date! |
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